I heartily recommend sketching out plans for your funeral. Helps the survivors stumble through the tons of little decisions after your death with at least the small comfort that they can honor your wishes in some of the last things they can do for your earthly being. I love that Speaker for the Dead excerpt. (it was from a different book than Ender's Game, wasn't it?)
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Date: 2006-06-20 12:30 pm (UTC)